Book 2, Question 47
Why Do We Miss People?
We miss people because we form strong bonds with them, which scientists study using an idea called attachment theory.
Missing someone is a sign that a bond is working. Your brain keeps a kind of map of the people you love. So when someone important is away, the map still points right to them.
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Quick answers
Who developed attachment theory?
A British doctor named John Bowlby, in the 1950s.
Sources: Cleveland Clinic, BBC, KidsHealth (Nemours)
From the book
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More fun facts
- Scientists study the bonds between people using an idea called attachment theory.
- Attachment theory was first developed in the 1950s by a British doctor named John Bowlby.
- The bond between a baby and the person who cares for them helps the baby survive and grow.
- Our earliest bonds can shape how we connect with people later in life.
- Missing home while you are away, like at a sleepover, is called being homesick.
Sources: Cleveland Clinic, BBC, KidsHealth (Nemours)
Questions kids ask
What should I do if I get homesick at a sleepover?
It is OK to call your parents to come pick you up.